I’m not tall (5'8).

I’m not rich.

I’m not jacked.

Honestly, I’m a below-average looking guy and didn't have anything special going for me.

And for most of my life, I thought that was the reason women didn’t want me.

I’d see my friends - better looking, taller, more confident - and they’d get girls without even trying.

Meanwhile, I’d be standing there wondering why I couldn’t have been born like them.

It ate at me.

Every time I got ignored, rejected, or left on read, it confirmed what I already believed - that I wasn’t enough.

It turned into jealousy, even hatred. I couldn’t understand why life felt rigged against guys like me.

I’d tell myself, “It’s because I don’t have money. It’s because I’m short. It’s because I’m not built.”

But deep down, I hated feeling powerless about it.

Then one night, a close female friend told me something that changed everything.

She said, “You don’t give off the vibe of a man women feel drawn to.”

That line hit me like a brick.

So I asked her to explain.

I didn’t realize I’d been subconsciously doing things and holding beliefs about myself, the world, and women… that were quietly repelling people.

She also started pointing out the small things I’d never even thought about: the way I stood, how I talked, how I carried myself, how I approached women, and even how I lived my day-to-day life.

It was brutal to hear, but it woke me up. I’d spent years thinking I wasn’t getting attention because of my height, lack of money, or physique - but it turned out, that wasn’t the real reason at all.

From that point on, we started from scratch.

With her help, I rebuilt myself piece by piece - my confidence, my energy, my body language, my mindset, my aura, how I approached women, how I engaged with them, and even how I viewed them.

I stripped away every habit and belief that made me come across weak or uncertain and started showing up like the man I always wanted to be.

Once I made the shifts, things started changing - fast.

Women who used to look through me suddenly noticed me.

I was being approached by women at the bar and on social media. I started going on dates, connecting in a way I never had before.

Fast forward 8 months, after applying everything I’d learned with the help of my female friend, I am now dating my dream girl. The type of girl I once thought was completely out of my league - the kind of 10/10 woman who turns heads when she walks into a room. The type people assume you must be a millionaire to be dating.

But here’s the truth: I’m not a millionaire. I still have the same bank account, I’m still the same height, and I still have the same body type. The only thing that changed was how I think, live, and carry myself - and you can do the same.

Stop blaming what you can’t change - and learn what actually makes women drawn to a man.